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What's Fair?
by Yolanda M. Johnson
In the last few weeks, we have been asking our
readers the following: Do you think that single
mothers should be congratulated on Father's Day? And
do you think that single fahters should be
congratulated on Mother's Day? And as the disclaimer
stated, your name will remain anonymous unless you
have given me permission to use it.
How did this topic originate. Well, in our May 10th
issue, I did a tribute to Mothers and single Fathers
for Mothers Day. And in our June 10th issue, I did a
tribute to Fathers and single Mothers for Fathers
Day. Our founded James Lisbon called me and asked
me if I thought it was fair that I congratulate one
or the other on the opposing day. I told him yes I
thought it was fair. There are a lot of single
mothers out there who are taking care of their
children, with no father present and vice versa. .
He then said, he respectfully disagreed, especially
in the case where the mother and father are not
together but they both take care of the child in
some way or another. For example: The child may
reside with their mother, but the father provides
child support. I question if because a man or a
woman for that matter pays child support, does that
really make them a father or a mother; especially if
they are not active in their children's lives. Mr.
Lisbon stressed that if the father is paying child
support and is active on a regular basis in a
child's life that the mother should not be given
props on 'his' day. Needless to say after our very
enlightening and heated discussion, we both walked
away; both agreeing to respectfully disagree.
Some of the responses that I received were very
interesting to me. Actually some of you had me
looking at the issue in a whole new perspective, but
no matter how many ways I looked at it, I still
stand on my original opinion.
Statistics show that 1 million children per year are
affected by divorce. 23% of those children affected
by divorce are being raised by single mothers and 5%
by single fathers. Surprisingly 69% of these
children live between these two parents. The number
of single mothers is 9.68 million and fathers are
2.04 million. These numbers are from a 2002 census
poll, which differ from those in 1998, where the
percentage was 84% residing with their single
mothers. Other stats conclude that children living
with both parents, weighed heavily on the white
(74%) and Hispanic (64%), leaving African Americans
the low man on the totem pole at 36%.
The Federal Office of Child Support reports that
$100 Billion in accumulated unpaid support is due to
18 million children in the United States. The
government child support agency collection rate, the
percentage of cases receiving one or more payments
was 50%, which is down from 68% in 2002. 50% of all
white children growing up in single parent
households, who do not receive support, live at or
below the poverty level. 60% of all Hispanic
children growing up in single parent households live
at or below the poverty level. 70% of all black
children growing up in single parent households live
at or below the poverty level. I won't even get
into the specifics of what's wrong with this
picture. I think that it is self-explanatory.
Furthermore, Children who receive child support are
more likely to have contact with their fathers,
better grade point averages, significantly better
test scores and fewer behavior problems and they
remain in school longer.
Now, with all that out of the way. Some mothers,
rather a LOT of mothers and fathers are raising
their children alone. They are doing this with no
child support and with no emotional or any other
type of support from the other parent whatsoever.
Now I don't discredit the other 30% of mothers and
fathers that DO give support, but come on now. 70%
bad to the 30% good? You 30 "percenters" are a
minority, not the majority and at 30% almost
obsolete. Again, that is not to discredit those of
you that DO. I give you kudos. But 70%!!!! Do we
really know the affect that has on OUR community?
That's like saying 70% of our children are dying and
only 30% are surviving. A bit drastic I know, but
it fits. So then why not give these men and women
their props. I mean the 70% that are doing it alone?
Well according to Mike K., "Wow - I think you are
opening up a can of worms with this question.
However, here is my answer. *By the way - this is so
ironic as just the other day, the mother of my
daughter said to me she was a single parent. We had
an argument over this amongst other things. For one,
I don't even consider her a parent, as I feel she
has no parental skills; or common sense. A wild
animal, in my opinion shows more care for its young
than she does; idiot. However, I won't vent too much
- I will just share my answer. I feel that it is
fair to call a female a single parent if and only if
she is the sole provider without any input at all
from the father. Let me clarify: input does not mean
that he comes around once a month or just birthdays;
or sends $5 or $10 here are there. I mean if this
man is routinely involved with his child on a
consistent basis (financially, physically, and
emotionally) then she is NOT a single parent. He is
playing an active role and sharing parental
responsibility. Some (ignorant) females say that
because they are single (not dating or not with the
father) AND they are a parent, then they are a "single
parent". Obviously, education & logic were not a
major influence in their life. As I stated above,
you are a single parent if and only if the other
person has NO involvement in the upbringing and
rearing of the child. As for if a person should be
congratulated on Mothers or Fathers Day, I think
that its ok if they are acting in the role of a
father or mother. Our society has associated emotion
and caring with women while associating strength,
protection & financial support with men. If a man or
a woman can execute their own responsibilities while
simultaneously and effectively the role of the
other, then they are worthy of receiving a "Happy
Mothers Day or Happy Fathers Day" greeting. Just
because a man donates sperm does NOT make him a
father, and just as important - just
because a woman pushes out a baby does NOT make her
fit to be called a mother.
AHA contraire Mr. Mike K. You are so right,
especially with the last two statements, but my word
of advice to you is, let go of the bitterness, trust
me, your anger came out through this response, and
if I can see it, so can your children; it will only
hurt you in the end. Let it go. Now Mike had a lot
of good points in his response. He did say he
thought it was fair if the father had no involvement
in the child's life. And coming around once a month
or on birthdays or filling your child with empty
promises would essentially make the other parent a
"single parent", because then the absent parent
becomes an emotional liability as opposed to an asset.
Anonymous female wrote: "My personal view is no.
Although single parenting is a huge task that
parents must endure I feel being honored on the
specific day of the respective gender is honor
enough. A single mother, as myself, is not trying to
take on the role of a father but rather attempting
to instill all that a child should get if they were
being raised in a two-parent home. I certainly don't
need the honor of both days, or any single day, as I
am on duty 24/7, 365 and worthy to be honored
everyday. (If these kids don't drive me crazy :~>)".
Although I respect what this respondent's response,
I have to say that no one is trying, or at least I
hope not, trying to take away anyone's thunder or
take on the role of the opposing parent. I simply
view it as someone getting their props for raising
their children alone; at least for those that are
raising their children alone. Even for those that
aren't where the other parent is regularly involved.
If for example, that child lives with his or her
mother and they see their father maybe 3-4 times a
week, (which is really good if you ask me), but
where is that other parent when the child wakes up
in the middle of the night with a fever, because
they wet the bed or because they had a nightmare.
What about the teenager who has the same luxuries
and is going through coming of age issues, and can't
talk to the part time parent? That parent that the
child is with full time, is still in essence a
single parent. Hmmm, the term "part-time" parent is
starting to float around here. But then again,
saying "Happy Part Time Father's Day" or "Happy Part
Time Mother's Day" sounds a little silly.
Now I have to agree with Anonymous Female #2 had to
say, "I believe it is fair to congratulate a single
mother and/or a single father on those days because
although they may be receiving child support it is
not the other parties, meaning the non custodial
parents responsibility to do the other necessary
things in life for the child when they are not
present and it takes much more than a certain small
amount that a single mother or father may receive
from the non custodial parent. Raising a child is
much more than just about money; it is about time,
attention, love and support as well. Being a single
parent is very draining at times being both parents
in the instances where the non-custodial parent is
very absent but rewarding in many aspects. It takes
a lot to raise a child on your own, a lot of money,
a lot of time, a lot of effort, a lot of
responsibility and maturity. Anyone who is a single
parents should be congratulated on any day of the
week." * clap clap clap *.
Anonymous Female #3 says, "I would get me something
for Father's Day every year because 1. My oldest
children's father was killed when they were very
young (3 and 1) and I was doing it by myself. 2.
My ex-husband was in and out of my youngest child's
life until very recently. I don't' feel that a
father is being a father if he is opposed to paying
child support and only pays it because the court
forces him to. Taking care of a child involves way
more than just money. It's time spent and actually
caring about your child. Being there when they
fall, being there to talk to them, and not being
spiteful to the other parent.
Now AF#3 brings up a good point. Some parents are
single parents because the opposing parent IS
spiteful, and who wants to deal with that? A lot of
mothers and fathers DO think that if they pay child
support that it is enough. But it isn't. I hear a
lot of men say that they refuse to pay child support
because they don't want the mother spending the
money on other things. Well newsflash, any
respecting judge will tell you that child support is
for the "welfare" of the child, which includes food
and lodging aka rent, clothing and anything else
that they may need. It does NOT necessarily say
that it is for a pair of $300 Lebron James tennis
shoes with spinners on the heels. At the same time,
those parents who think that child support is the
ONLY thing that matters are completely wrong. If
you're basing your child's worth on and to the other
parent on money, then you my dear have the problem.
Some of us single parents, (and yes I am one) would
love it if the father of my two children would take
the time and spent some quality time with the
children. Perhaps shoot both my 16-year-old
daughter and 14-year-old son some knowledge from a
male perspective. Play and talk with them. Help
them with their homework. Mine does not pay child
support, but I can take care of my children
financially on my own. It would be such a sight to
have him spend time with them. Now I don't
personally celebrate Father's Day on my own, I
really don't celebrate Mother's Day for that matter,
because I'm a mother EVERY day, but I sure as heck
am going to acknowledge it when someone tells me, a
single mother, Happy Father's Day. I'm going to say
thank you, grin and go on about my business.
I'll get one more male response and then you will
have a chance to read all of the responses in their
entirety by clicking the link at the bottom of this
article.
Anonymous Male says, "A father can't be a mother and
a mother can't be a father. They can only be the
best of the one that they are. It is ridiculous to
cross gender, unless that is what you are."
Now Anonymous Male, you know I love you, (I now
Anonymous Male personally), but I am going to have
to disagree with you to an extent. No one is
crossing genders, but if the parent is left to be
both mother and father to the child then so be it.
It is normal for a mother to teach a daughter about
her monthly visitor, but if the mother isn't there
to do that, then it is the father's job to take on
that motherly role. If the father isn't there to
bust that son upside his head and tell him to leave
his penis in his pants and how to treat and respect
women, then it is up to that mother to step into
that fatherly role and do just that.
All of our opinions are valuable, for with varied
opinions it shows just how diverse we are as a
people. It is also nice to know that we can either
agree or disagree all in respect. In summary, no
one person is wrong on this issue, the right answer
is how YOU deal with your issues and how YOU choose
to label it. The most important part is that YOU
are sticking it out and doing your best to raise
your child, whether you're a man or a woman, or
whether you're doing it alone or with support. So
to all of you, I say, Happy Father's Day, Happy
Mother's Day and a Feliz Navidad to ya too! And to
James, Mr. Lisbon, my Father's Day card had not
better get lost in the mail next year.
To read all the responses that we received in their
entirety, click on the link below.
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Hustle & Flow
Theatrical Release Date: 07/13/2005 Remind Me
Starring: Terrence Howard, Anthony Anderson, Taryn
Manning, Taraji Henson, more credits
Directed By: Craig Brewer
Released By: MTV Films
Run Time: 115 min.
Genre: Drama, Coming Soon
Rating: R
Terrence Howard, who has stolen scenes in more than
30 movies including 'Ray' and 'Lackawanna Blues,'
gets his breakout starring role in 'Hustle and
Flow.' Howard plays DJay, a hardworking hustler
(that's pimp to you) who spends most days in his
parked Chevy philosophizing about life. DJay harbors
dreams of recording his flow and becoming a
respected rapper, while he and his girls, including
runaway Nola (Taryn Manning), make just enough to
get by. When a pot client and club owner (Isaac
Hayes) tells DJay that local rapper-turned-mogul
Skinny Black (Ludacris), is rolling through town for
July 4th, DJay sees an opportunity to fulfill his
dream and change his life for the better.
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Radio Personality and Author Delores Thornton
by Yolanda M. Johnson
I had the pleasure of interviewing Delores Thornton,
owner of Marguerite Press and host of Arount2It,
which airs on Artist First and The Book Nook. In
addition to being a radio host, Delores is an
author. Ida Mae, Anybody Seen Junebug, Babe and
most recently Divine Appointment: A Caregiver's
Guide are amongst her list of accomplished and
published works. Delores is currently working on a
self help book called "How To Self Publish That
Great Novel Without Going Nuts!". It is due out
this month. As if that did not keep her busy, she
also has a new novel titled "Airing Dirty Linen"
that is set to be released sometime in November.
Due to time, space and the limited use of Constant
Contact this interview has been condensed.
YMJ: Hello Delores. How are you?
DT: Good and you?
YMJ: I'm good, thank you for talking to me today.
You have two radio shows right?
DT: Yes. Around2It and The Book Nook.
YMJ: They air on Artist First right?
DT: Right.
YMJ: When did you first start writing?
DT: I first started writing in 1995, and actually
some friends convinced me to publish my work. In
1999, I enrolled in the LongRidge Writers Group, to
hone my writing skills.
YMJ: Did you self publish your titles?
DT: Yes I did. I formed my company, Marguerite Press
in 1996.
YMJ: What are your views on self publishing as
opposed to traditional publishing?
DT: I like the control that I have with
self-publishing. I can choose my own cover and
everything else involved. My name is going out
there, so I want the best product possible and I
want it the way that I want it.
YMJ: Are you working on anything right now?
DT: I'm working on my next novel, "Airing Dirty
Linen" which should be out in November, and my
self-help book "How To Self-Publish That Great Novel
Without Going Nuts!".
YMJ: Do you mind me asking about your education and
background that led you to this type of business?
DT: You know I don't really have a lot of background
in this venue. It was something that I had not
really thought about. I worked for 23 years before
going into business for myself, in 1996. I retired
from the United States Postal Service after 30 years
(in 2003).
YMJ: Thirty years? You don't sound like you're
retired, let alone retired after 30 years of
service. So I won't even put you on the spot and ask
your age.
DT: I feel old as dirt.
YMJ: In all the interviews you have done, which
would you say was the one you enjoyed the most?
DT: (lol) I'd have to say Heather Covington of
Disigold, was one of the most enjoyable. I like to
interview people that are actively involved in the
interview and have something to say. Heather makes
an interview interesting and you both are talking
and I'm not just asking questions that get a short
response. Also, Charlotte Clark-Frieson, Frances
Ray and Kevin Wayne Johnson.
YMJ: Now who is Kevin Wayne Johnson?
DT: Kevin Wayne Johnson is the author of the "Give
God The Glory" series.
YMJ: Who is the one person that you would like to
interview that you have not interviewed yet?
DT: I'd say Zane. Because she has been so
successful, first as a self-publisher, then as a
mainstream author. I've met her and she's so
personable and I'm sure people would pick up on
that, and also glean from her business savvy.
YMJ: What is one book that you have in your
collection that you think everyone should have in
theirs?
DT: Zora Neal Hurston's "Their Eyes Were Watching God".
YMJ: Did you see the movie?
DT: Yes I did and I was kind of let down. The movie
did not do the book any justice.
YMJ: What is one book in your collection that you
can't even give away.
DT: Silence.
YMJ: Lol. I'm sorry for putting you on the spot
like that. You don't even have to answer that
question.
I enjoyed the rest of the interview with Delores
Thornton and she had lots to say and taught me a lot
of things that I was surprised that I did not know
about the industry.
In addition to writing and hosting radio, Delores
does volunteer work as mentor for the Marion County
Probation Department. Delores is also the
Co-founder/Executive Director, of Indianapolis Book
Fest, Incorporated. Look for Delores soon on
PowerTalk FM. Delores still finds time to give
seminars and workshops.
Delores offers promo opportunities as she spotlights
up and coming authors at
http://www.margueritepresspromo.com/index.html.
Delores is also sponsoring the Around2It Essay
Contest. For more information visit
www.deloresthornton.com and www.margueritepress.com.
YMJ: Thank you Delores for granting this interview.
Any last words?
DT: Yolanda, first, I'd like to thank you for this
opportunity. And, I'd like you and your readers to
note that I will be filling orders for, How To
Self-Publish That Great Novel: Without Going Nuts!,
starting next week. God is so Good!
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Options Trading
What are options? The basics
An option is simply a contract that represents the
right to buy or sell an underlying security at a
specified price until a certain date. Options fall
into a category of investments called derivatives
because they are derived from an underlying product.
You can trade options on a variety of products,
including stocks, indices and foreign currencies.
Although the concepts remain similar from product to
product, for simplicity we will focus on stock options.
All standardized, listed options (that is, options
traded on exchanges) are issued by the Options
Clearing Corp. (OCC) and traded on the Chicago Board
Options Exchange (CBOE), American Stock Exchange
(AMEX), Pacific Exchange (PCX), the Philadelphia
Stock Exchange (PHLX) and the International
Securities Exchange (ISE). You can buy or sell
standardized options through your broker.
There are two types of options; put options and call
options. Here, we'll look at buying call options, or
calls-one of the most widely used option strategies.
We'll cover the basics of buying calls, examine the
investment objectives of this strategy and review
the potential risks and rewards.
How do call options work?
Generally, one call contract represents the right to
buy 100 shares of the underlying stock at a
specified price-the strike price-until a certain
date-the expiration date. Options expire on the
Saturday following the third Friday of a particular
month. However, because options exchanges and
brokerage firms are closed on Saturdays, the third
Friday of the month is the last day of trading.
By the time your options expire, you will likely do
one of three things:
1. Exercise your options and purchase the
underlying shares of stock.
2. Close out your position by selling your
options according to what the market will pay (see
below).
3. Let your options expire worthless.
An example of buying calls
Let's look at a hypothetical example (for the sake
of simplicity, we'll exclude commissions charged for
buying, selling or exercising options). Assume you
are buying calls. You might ask your broker to buy
10 XYZ Mar 25 calls at $4 Let's break down what
this means.
Buy 10 XYZ Mar 25 Calls at $4
This means you want to buy 10contracts of stock
symbol XYZ March 25 Calls.
Buy 10 XYZ Mar 25 Calls at $4
Listed options are quoted on a per-contract basis.
Since most options contracts represent 100 shares of
stock, Calls at $4 means $400 per contract. In this
example, you wish to buy 10 contracts representing
1,000 shares of stock, so the cost of this
investment is $4,000 (10 contracts x 100 shares of
stock x $4)
Buy 10 XYZ Mar 25 Calls at $4
March is the month your option contracts expire.
Specifically, the options will cease to exist after
the third Friday in March.
Buy 10 XYZ Mar 25 Calls at $4
The strike price you have chosen is $25 (Check with
your broker to find out what strike prices are
available.)
In summary, opening this position gives you the
right to buy 1,000 shares of XYZ stock at $25
through the third Friday in March. You can exercise
these options, sell to close or let them expire.
For more information on trading option calls and
puts, or other investment tools, click the link below.
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What You Need To Know About Diabetes
by Yolanda M. Johnson
I've always been small in stature and pretty much
healthy. I could eat anything I wanted and not
worry about its affects. My metabolism was high; no
worries right? Wrong. Out of no where, I began to
gain weight. No amount of working out or watching
what I ate at that point made a difference. Then my
doctor introduced me to a term that I never
"noticed" before. The term was "STRESS". Notice
that I said notice. Although I had heard about
stress, it was not something ANYone in my family
talked about, therefore I thought stress was a white
man's disease that resulted from some evil deed
they had done and now their conscious was eating at
them. (I know, I watched way too much television
back then).
In my struggle, I continued to work out, and tried
watching what I ate, but nothing worked and the
weight continued to pile on. It was not until I
separated from my now exhusband that I really paid
attention to this thing they caused stress. My
diagnosis from my doctor was, "Get rid of some of
the stress, becuase if you don't several things
could happen. #1, you could die. You cold also
develop heart disease and if you have a family
history of certain disease, you can trigger an early
onset of one of these ailments." Like I was
supposed to know what that meant. Besides, I was
fine as wine, with a body like a Goddess and I went
to my gynocologist once a year. That was all I
needed right?
Wrong. I had my first heart attack in 2000 upon
learning my mother had cancer and had been diagnosed
to live for 11 months. During her short bout with
cancer, she developed diabetes. You would have
thought that even then I would have taken heed.
Besides, my grandmother, grandfather and a few other
releatives had diabetes. My mother died 11 months
later. After that I was more aware of things like
my migranes which I got often, for my mother died of
brain cancer that was discovered after she
complained of a migrane.
Still, I gave no thought to diabetes. It was not
until September of 2004, that I was sitting at my
desk at work, drinking my favorite Sonic Route 44
Strawberry
Fruit Slush, like I had done nearly every day at
this time, and I fell out. Yes, I fainted. Just
the week prior to that, my company sponsored a
health fair that I participated in, however I had not
gotten my results yet.
Still my ignorance got the best of me, and I blamed
my spell on "stress". A few days later, I got my
results in the mail and it was then that I found out
that I had diabetes. I made an appointment with my
physician and went. With yet another strawberry
fruit slush in had, I greeted my doctor who
instantly told me, if you keep drinking that you are
going to kill yourself. I was puzzled until he
explained to me that I had diabetes. Type 2
diabetes to be precise. Suddenly the thought of
shooting insulin down my veins on a regular basis
with a needle sent me into instant denial. He took
more blood test at my request, even though he knew
the truth. I finally came to grips with the fact
that I have diabetes. After begging my doctor not to
make me use a needle, he prescribed me 1000 mg of
Metphormin per day and altered my diet. Needless to
say, as the months went by, 1000mg was not enough.
Currently I am on 2000 mg of Metaphormin a day and
dreading that day when my doctor tells me I have to
switch to insulin. In February 2005, I had my
second heart attack. I joined Weight Watchers and
with a combination of the Weight Watchers and
exercise I have decreased my weight by a total of 25
pounds.
I want to strongly urge, actually beg everyone to
get checked for diabetes. Research your family's
health history. Prevent and not maintain this
disease. I ocassionally lose feeling in my limbs
due to poor circulation. My doctor's diagnosis: If
it doesn't subside, amputation is inevidable.
Below I've added a few facts about diabetes, in the
hopes that it will help someone else become more
aware and throw ignorance aside. After all, it
seems as if the African American life span is
decreasing; we don't need another enabler.
Diabetes develops because the body can't make or
properly use a natural hormone called insulin.
Insulin is made in your pancreas and it helps your
body's cells take in sugars from your bloodstream.
Diabetes is diagnosed when a blood sugar called
glucose builds up in your blood. High levels of
sugar can make you feel tired, damage your organs
and increase your risk of heart disease.
The three most common forms of diabetes are: Type 1
- This often affects children, but adults can
develop it, too. People with type 1 diabetes need
to take insulin or they may go into comas, and
perhaps die. Type 2 - This type is rising fast in
the U.S. and accounts for 90% to 95% of diabetes
cases. With this form of diabetes, your body
probably still makes insulin, but cells can't use it
well. This is called insulin resistance.
Gastational diabetes - this form occurs in some
pregnant women and can cause complications during
labor and delivery. Diabetes that develops in later
trimesters usually goes away after the pregnancy
ends. However, women who get gestational diabetes
are more likely to develop type 2 diabetes later in
life.
Insulin resistance happens when cells in your
muscle, fat and liver can't use insuin well. As sa
result, the cells can't absorb enough sugar from
your blood. As sugar bilds up in your blood, you
may eventually develop diabetes. Mot people with
insulin resistance have no symptoms. But this
silent condition raises your risk of getting
diabetes and heart disease. Some common risk
factors that may apply to you are diabetes or heart
disease runs in your family; you are overweight and
your body mass index is over 25kg; your waist
measures over 40 inches for men and 35 inches for
women and you have had gestational diabetes.
Family history and excess weight are the main risk
factors of this condition. Too much fat harms your
body's ability to use insulin. MOst overweight
people can help their cells use insulin just by
losing 5%-10% of their weight. Physical activity
also helps the body use insulin.
About 13 million Americans have been diagnosed with
type 2 diabetes, and nearly 5.2 millin more have it
and don't it. Stats by race are 8.4% Caucasian,
8.2% Hispanics, 11.4% African Americans and 14.9%
Amrican Indians and Alaska Natives. Native
Hawaiins, Japanese, and Filipino residents of Hawaii
are twice as likely to have diabetes as Caucasians.
For more information on diabetes, see your physician
or you can research it online at sites like
Webmd.com, realage.com or google it!
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Mystery/Thriller author John A. Wooden
by Yolanda M. Johnson
YMJ: Please tell us a little about yourself.
JW: My name is John A. Wooden. I laugh when I get
this question, because I am so many things to so many
people. I love telling folks I am a father, son,
brother, ex-military officer, technical editor, team
leader, author and storyteller, and finally, a child
of God! (catching my breath)
YMJ: Tell us about your current literary work.
JW: I have published two books. My first, A
Collection of Thoughts, was released in April 2003,
and A Moment of Justice, A Lifetime of Vengeance,
released in April of this year. A Collection of
Thoughts was my introduction into the literary
world. It was a collection of what I called life
experience chapters and nonfiction short
stories/novellas. It was well received and did
fairly well for the amount of time I put into it. I
was still in the Air Force at the time and really
couldn't dedicate the time required to make it a
complete success
A Moment of Justice, A Lifetime of Vengeance is my
suspense thriller. I wanted to capture something
different and thought-provoking. This is a story
that starts with a lynching of a Black man in 1974
Alabama and transitions to 2004, where an Alabama
senator/Presidential hopeful is found dead in a DC
area hotel with his throat cut and a picture of
fifteen white teenagers and a lynched Black man. Oh
yea, nine of the fifteen teenagers faces are "x" out
in the senator's blood and his name is also signed
in his own blood. From there, the fun starts as my
main character, FBI Special Agent Kenny "KC" Carson
and his team must try to find the remaining racists,
who years ago would have killed him for one
reason;the color of his skin!
I love the attention the book is getting, especially
since the Edgar Ray Killen verdict (Mississippi
Burning trial) and the reopening of the Emmett Till
case. A lot of parallels. So I am riding the waves
and hoping something good comes out of it. But I
love the fact everyone loves the book. I am already
working on the next "KC" novel. Hopefully it will be
released by the beginning of the year or on my
birthday in February.
YMJ: What was the purpose of this literary work?
JW: I thought this was a story that needed to be
told. I bring up several points in my book about
life in general and thus far, readers have been able
to latch on to my points. This book is more about
justice, than revenge. It's more about the
characters who make the story, than a lynching. It's
more about the life and world we live in, than the
death and destruction of the lives we live.
YMJ: Are any of your writings based on truth?
JW: Truth in the sense that lynchings occurred,
which we all know. Truth in the sense that the
American government should have done something years
ago about the numerous photographs floating around
of people taking pictures with lynched
African-Americans. But no! To my knowledge, no one
has ever sought vengeance against those who lynched
Black men years ago.
YMJ: What genre do you consider your work to be?
JW: Mystery and suspense.
YMJ: Tell us about other literary works and
non-literary projects that you are working on.
JW: I have been asked by a couple of filmmakers to
write a Movie Treatment for my book, A Moment of
Justice, A Lifetime of Vengeance. I am also writing
another Kenny "KC" Carson book, my main character in
A Moment of Justice, A Lifetime of Vengeance,
tentatively called An Eye for A Deadly Eye, and I
have started on another suspense thriller with a
female lead, tentatively called Sasha McCoy, Freelancer.
YMJ: What is some of the feedback that you've gotten
on your work?
JW: Yolanda, the feedback from A Moment of Justice
is outstanding, extraordinary. I have yet to meet or
hear from anyone who did not enjoy the book.
Everything I have received is positive. Hearing that
your literary work is a page-turner or can't put it
down or very intriguing is something special. I
especially like it when someone compares my work to
a published author and say they like my work better.
But the one that's a killer is when someone tells me
they can't believe I am not published by a major
publishing house. I know it is meant as a
compliment, but it also signifies that I need to get
on my J-O-B and make something happen.
YMJ: What are your views on literary practices in
the world today? What would you change?
JW: I think the advent of modern technology makes it
easier to publish today, especially when you look at
the world of PODs and self-publishing. I think it is
a good thing and open doors for many of us to make
it big with a major publishing house. Unfortunately,
with so many avenues to get published, I think it is
also easy to lose hard earned money when publishing
with the wrong POD publisher. I'm against too many
"watchdogs" overseeing the publishing industry, but
I think my only change would be regulating the
companies that are truly out to rip off potential
authors. You hear about a different story every week.
YMJ: What have been the ups and downs of writing?
JW: Biggest down, by far, is getting the book to a
wider audience. I want my book to be read from
California to New York and everywhere in between. I
have confidence that if someone picks it up and
starts reading, they will like it. It's a story that
needed to be told and consequently, needs to be
read. The biggest up is when someone reads my work
and likes it. I think it's a special thing when you
can touch someone with your work.
YMJ: How can readers get in contact with you?
JW: Via my website: www.jwooden.com, e-mail:
jwooden61@yahoo.com / jwooden61@gmail.com or through
my Publicist, S. Redic Publicity (Sherita Redic-Nunn).
To read this interview in its entirety please go to:
http://www.literarywonders.com/featured_authors.htm
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. . . . . And We Have Lost Yet Another One
by Yolanda M. Johnson
Legendary R&B artist Luther Vandross died July 1,
2005. He was 54 years young. Luther was best known
for his silky smooth voice that crooned soulful
ballads like "Here and Now", "Endless Love" and the
most recent "Dance With My Father". Many were
saddened by the passing of the R&B Legend.
Afterall, many of them were conceived during one of
his ballads, or they had a lot of fun trying. The
true cause of death is unknown, some will only say
that Luther never recovered from a stroke that he
had in 2003.
Yes, we have lost another one. A great and
inspiring African American. To Luther I say, Rest
In Peace. God has His own reasons for taking you,
ones that are beyond our understanding. You will
truly be missed, and in your infamous words, "Never
Too Much".
I would also like to take this time to say goodbye
to Ronald Winans who died June 23, 2005. He died of
heart complications. Ronald Winans was a member of
the grammy winning gospel
group the Winans. Ronald Winans was 48 years young.
The Winans "It's Time" and "Tomorrow" gave hope to
the young and old alike. Rest In Peace. God is with
you.
And last but definately not least, Rest In Peace to
Obie Benson of the infamous Four Tops. Obie Benson
was 69 years young. The Four Tops were known for
hits like "I Can't Help Myself", "Baby I Need Your
Loving", "Ain't No Woman Like The One I Got" and
"Ask The Lonely". Obie died of lung cancer. May
you find peace in the gates of God.
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Embrace life
When life comes at you, run out and embrace it. The
more enthusiastically and completely you embrace
life, the better it will be.
Embrace the beauty, the joy, the wonder and the
abundance of life. At the same time, embrace the
challenges, the setbacks, the disappointments and
the difficulties.
For by embracing life fully, you put yourself in a
position to make a positive difference. By welcoming
the ups and the downs, you're able to move forward
from an effective and realistic perspective.
Certainly life has very real tragedies, yet often
what seem to be disappointments are disappointments
only because you imagine them to be. When you stop
fighting them and start embracing them as part of
life's flow, you'll find many of them not to be
disappointments at all.
Whatever life sends your way at any given moment is
what you have to work with. So embrace it and then
set about to make the most of it.
Embrace life, and all the many paths it takes.
Embrace life, and those paths will lead where you
truly want to go.
-- Ralph Marston
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Proverbs 15:13-14
13 A glad heart makes a cheerful countenance, but
by sorrow of heart the spirit is broken.
14 The mind of him who has understanding, seeks
knowledge, inquires after and craves it, but the
mouths of (self-confident) fools feed on folly.
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